Leveling Up as a Dad: Crypto Security, Family Wins, and Faith-Fueled Financial Wisdom from My Chat with Trent
Oct 24, 2025
Hey, Dad. Yeah, you—the one grinding through the daily hustle, trying to be the rock for your wife and kids while eyeing that financial future that could change everything. I get it. You're not just building wealth; you're building a legacy. A secure home, meaningful memories, and the kind of stability that lets your family thrive. Recently, I sat down with Trent Cleveland on the Dad Ledger podcast, and our conversation hit all those notes: from marrying off his daughter to navigating crypto hacks, Ripple's big moves, and even the ongoing government shutdown drama. But this isn't just a recap—it's a blueprint for you. I've distilled the key takeaways into actionable steps, sprinkled in some fresh insights from my research (as of October 2025), and kept it real. Remember, this is not financial advice—I'm not a certified advisor, and crypto involves serious risks like volatility and potential loss of principal. Always consult a professional before making moves.Let's dive in, starting with what matters most: your family.Putting Family First: Lessons from Trent's Wedding Weekend and Dad WinsTrent kicked things off by sharing the surreal joy of walking his daughter down the aisle. It was a whirlwind—family flying in, perfect weather, golf outings—and yeah, there were tears. As a dad with a four-year-old girl myself, it hit home how fast time flies. Trent's advice? Cherish the moments, unplug from the noise (he ditched social media for days), and use tools like RV Share for family adventures that create bonds without breaking the bank.But the real gold was in our "Dad Wins" segment. Trent emphasized two pillars for raising strong daughters: faith and intentional "dating." He's never shied away from talking about God and Jesus, showing it publicly through prayers and missions trips. His daughters have seen him live it out—with their mom, at work, everywhere. And dating? He means real dates: opening doors, quality time, teaching them what respect looks like. It's about modeling the man you want them to find.My win? Teaching my daughter to ride her bike during a family trip. She was screaming, frustrated, but with calm persistence, we pushed through. Thirty minutes later, the whole family was cruising together. It's a reminder: Kids learn resilience from your steady hand.Actionable Takeaways for You:
Trezor Model T is great for open-source fans.
Trent stressed: Write seed phrases on paper or metal (never digital), buy direct from manufacturers (not Amazon), and verify URLs to avoid fakes.Actionable Takeaways for You:
My research? Q-Day (when quantum breaks current crypto) is looming, but experts say it's years away—Google's breakthroughs reignite debates, but Bitcoin's past transactions could be exposed first.
For now, "hodl" in cold storage without touching for quantum safety.Actionable Takeaways for You:
Insured, secure, perfect if self-custody stresses you.Jake Claver's Digital Wealth Partners? Trent's buddy is custodying there. It's RIA-managed, integrates with Securitize (Ripple partner), yields to cover fees. Minimum: 100,000 XRP. My experience: Solid returns, even in dips.Crypto IRAs via iTrustCapital? Tax-sheltered growth—reviews rave about low fees (best in 2025 per Investopedia).
One guy turned limits into millions tax-free.Actionable Takeaways for You:
Evernorth (Ripple-backed) is raising $1B via SPAC to build the world's largest XRP treasury, with Chris Larsen funding and Schwartz advising.
SBI Holdings? Backing with $200M, pioneered XRP salaries for eSports in 2020—those players saw massive gains.Bears are out, but fundamentals scream opportunity. Government shutdown? Polymarket odds: 17% ending Oct 31-Nov 3, but it's dragging—could delay ETFs, but blood in streets means buy time.
Actionable Takeaways for You:
- Date your daughter weekly. Grab lunch, a walk, or ice cream. Show her chivalry—open doors, listen deeply. Research from Focus on the Family backs this: Dads who actively engage build their daughters' self-worth and help them spot healthy relationships.
Start small: Plan one this weekend.focusonthefamily.com
- Weave faith into daily life. Pray together, discuss values openly. Trent's approach aligns with advice from Dr. James Dobson's Family Institute: Dads hold the key to a daughter's identity and future relationships.
If faith isn't your thing yet, start with gratitude rituals at dinner.drjamesdobson.org
- Practice persistence with patience. Like my bike lesson, push through tough moments calmly. Child Mind Institute suggests praising effort over outcome to foster closeness.
Next time your kid hits a wall (homework, sports), be the guide who doesn't quit.childmind.org
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- Switch to a cold wallet now. If you're holding on exchanges like Robinhood or Kraken (like I was), move the bulk off. Research shows 25% of Bitcoin is vulnerable to hacks—don't be a statistic.
Start with Tangem for user-friendliness; set it up this week.deloitte.com
- Secure your seeds properly. No screenshots, no cloud storage. Engrave on metal plates for fireproofing. Trent's tip: Double-check it's truly cold (needs physical connection for transactions).
- Educate yourself on "not your keys, not your crypto." Exchanges can freeze during pumps or crashes—FTX and Celsius proved that. Keep a little liquidity there, but custody the rest yourself.
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- Audit your holdings. List exchanges you're on; transfer 80%+ to cold storage. Use apps like Bifrost for mobile cold options.
- Stay quantum-aware. Follow updates—IBM urges crypto-agility now.
Consider quantum-resistant coins if diving deeper.ibm.com
- Diversify smartly. Don't leverage; own assets outright, as Trent advises for long-term plays.
- Explore Anchorage or Jake's shop. If holding big, get insured custody. Set up an LLC (Wyoming for tax perks) to borrow against assets.
- Open a crypto IRA. iTrustCapital's easy—transfer in, grow tax-deferred. Reviews highlight stellar service.
Aim for XLM or XRP for utility.itrustcapital.com
- Set limit orders. In pro setups, pre-plan exits to avoid emotion.
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- Research Ripple ecosystem. Accumulate XRP now; watch Evernorth for treasury trends.
- Monitor Polymarket. Use it for shutdown bets—17% chance short-term end, but prep for volatility.
- Widen your aperture. As Trent said, think grandkids. ISO 2022 deadlines loom—position for Web3 shifts.
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